My focus is on relationships, trauma, and neurodivergence.
I predominantly use a relational, transpersonal, parts and somatic approach. I don't believe in a society where humans are rated or have opportunities or freedoms based on a hierarchy. Here is a brief summary of what this means and how I work:
- I see unconditional human connection as one of the most powrful therapeutic interventions.
- Internal conflict can be resolved when we understand the various parts that make up these experiences.
- Our nervous system drives our emotions and our mental states. When we get to know and become friends with our nervous system, we can transform our way of being.
- We don't need to understand what happened to find healing. When trauma is trapped in the body, we can use movement, touch, voice, breath to allow release.
- We live in a world that was designed for those that are what is considered 'normal'. Normal just means that we are the norm, within the typical range. Being extraordinary is 'not normal'.
- Being neurodivergent means living in a world that was not designed for us. We are a square peg trying to squeeze into a round hole. We may experience some of our capacities as disabilities.
- One of our biggest struggles as neurodivergent individuals can be the internalized ableism (shame) we have around how we (don't) function.
- We all have a need to belong, to believe in something bigger than ourselves, and that we have a meaningful role.
- When we find moments of 'knowing' (awe, gratitude, the vastness of connection with everything), we get a very different perspective on our daily challenges.
- Our bodies can be an access point to this kind of presence, except that pain and trauma can make such 'being in our bodies' difficult.
If any of this sounds interesting to you, let's find our if I am a good match for you! I offer 15min virtual Meet & Assess Fit, complimentary.